Transitions are often daunting. Whether it’s a new job, a promotion, or an unexpected career change, the uncertainty that comes with it can leave you feeling unsettled. But as believers, we have something that can help us navigate these tough seasons: faith. Trusting God through career transitions isn’t just about waiting for the next step to unfold; it’s about actively relying on His wisdom and timing. Here are some practical steps to help you handle these situations with faith and confidence. 1. Trust in God’s Timing When we’re in the midst of a career change, we may want to rush through the process or feel anxious about the future. But remember, God’s timing is perfect. He is never early or late—He’s always on time. Proverbs 3:5-6 reminds us: “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to Him, and He will make your paths straight.” Even when you don’t see the bigger picture, trust that God is guiding you in the right direction. 2. Seek God in Prayer As you navigate a career transition, make prayer a daily habit. Ask God for wisdom, clarity, and peace about the next steps. Philippians 4:6-7 tells us, “ Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.” 3. Reflect on Your Calling Career changes can cause us to question our purpose, but remember, God has a unique calling for each of us. In times of transition, remember your calling and allow faith to guide you through uncertain times. 4. Take Courage in God’s Promises Transitioning into something new often brings fear and doubt. But God’s promises give us the courage we need. Joshua 1:9 says, “Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go.” Even when you face challenges in your career, know that God is with you every step of the way. 5. Embrace the Growth Opportunity Every transition is an opportunity for growth. It’s a chance to learn new skills, meet new people, and discover new strengths. James 1:2-4 reminds us, “Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance. Let perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything.” Embrace the challenges in this season as opportunities to build resilience and trust in God’s ability to strengthen you. Remember, God’s plans for you are good, and He cannot fail.

Digital lifestyle magazine Caribbean POSH has announced the nominees for its upcoming Posh Icon Woman Awards , which will be held in June under the theme “Embrace the Power, Live the Dream.” Among those listed are bold Jamaican women of faith making their mark in philanthropy , media, tourism, and more. Nominated for empowering women and girls to "maximize their true potential and to find their purpose" is the CEO of We Inspire Ltd, Cortia Bingham McKenzie. A certified health coach, Cortia organizes events that promote the importance of wellness, wealth, and networking to women across Jamaica and the region. Akeelia Thompson, Creative Director of Souled Into Purpose International  and a contributor to Noble Media Network , has been nominated for the "Empowerment in Action" award. As host of the Souled Into Purpose  podcast, Akeelia amplifies impactful voices within the faith community, leading conversations around leadership, redemption, and hope. Through her editorials and blog contributions , she offers inspiring perspectives on faith, personal growth, and purpose. Also nominated from Jamaica is Christian author and travel specialist Sheneico Eastwood, recognized in the category of Tourism Excellence for her award-winning travel agency, P&S Events and Vacations Limited. We recently sat down with Sheneico to discuss her powerful new book , Prayer-Proofing Your Marriage , a devotional equipping wives to stand in spiritual intercession for their families. This recognition by Caribbean POSH highlights the significant impact women of faith continue to make throughout the region, extending well beyond the church walls. Additional Jamaican nominees include: Lexi Chow, Founder of CODA Network; Nicolette Armstrong of ND Communications, Karen Blake-Chin of KBC Casting; and Dr. Onika P. Campbell-Rowe, UN-org Global Peace Ambassador. Regional nominees include: Risan Martin, Creative Consultant and Designer, Island Eye (Trinidad & Tobago); Melssia Adderley, Founder and CEO, Women's Haven (Cayman Islands), Athalia Samuel, Fashion Designer (Trinidad & Tobago); Tania Destang-Beaubrun, Health Advocate (Saint Lucia); Avalon Gomez, Entrepreneur & Business Strategist (Trinidad). The Caribbean POSH Icon Woman Awards will take place June 27–29 in St. Thomas, U.S. Virgin Islands, honoring these remarkable women across business, community service, cultural heritage, and the arts. Voting is now open on the Caribbean POSH website .

They say that whenever you get quiet, watch where your thoughts go. This weekend, as I was doing my routine cleaning, my mind drifted into deep reflection on the goodness of God. And the truth is, if we really look back, things may not be exactly where we want them to be, but we are nowhere near where we used to be.  I remember a few years ago, I was broken, distressed and crying on the floor, lamenting bitterly before the Lord about the slander, the lies and the stories people had fabricated about me. I was desperate for a way to defend myself, to set the record straight, to fight back against the false narratives that had been spoken over my life. And in that moment, the Holy Spirit spoke to me so clearly:  "I have seen and know everything that they have done. You have heard and believed what they have said about you. But I have also spoken—do you believe what I have said about you?"  That encounter hit me like a ton of bricks. I wiped my tears, got up, and went straight to work. It was a defining moment that set me on the path to ascend to the next level.  When God Speaks, Every Other Speaker Becomes a Noise Maker  Rev. Lucy Natasha-Carmel always says, "When God speaks, every other speaker becomes a noise maker!" But how many times do we allow the negative and limiting thoughts of others to stop us from becoming who God has called us to be? How often do we internalize their opinions and let their words shape our identity instead of standing on the truth of what God has spoken?  We have songs that remind us of His promises, like You’re a Man of Your Word and You Have Spoken, and I Know That It Is So. These songs are declarations of faith, reminding us that God’s word is final and His plans for us are good.  Whose Voice Are You Listening To?  The Bible is filled with people who faced opposition, yet they chose to believe what God said over what men said. Look at Joseph—his own brothers despised him, mocked his dreams and sold him into slavery (Genesis 37). Yet God’s plan for his life prevailed, and he rose to a position of great influence. Imagine if Joseph had allowed the voices of his brothers to dictate his destiny.  Or take David; when he was anointed king, he was just a shepherd boy. His own family overlooked him and later, King Saul sought to kill him out of jealousy. But David believed what God had spoken over his life and in due time, he stepped into his kingship (1 Samuel 16). The Power of God's Word Over Your Life  When God speaks, His word carries the power to override every lie, every attack, and every false narrative.  ● Jeremiah 29:11 – "For I know the plans I have for you," declares the Lord, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future."  ● Isaiah 55:11 – "So shall my word be that goes out from my mouth; it shall not return to me empty, but it shall accomplish that which I purpose, and shall succeed in the thing for which I sent it."  ● Philippians 4:13 – "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me."  Stop letting people with blindness about your vision dictate your future. The Word says we know in part (1 Corinthians 13:9). They can’t even predict their own future, so why would you let them speak into yours?  Breaking Free from the Lies of Others  It’s time to silence the voices that don’t align with God’s truth. Here’s how:  1. Stand Firm on God’s Promises – When negative words come your way, counter them with scripture. If God says you are fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14), no one can tell you otherwise.  2. Filter the Voices in Your Life – Not every opinion deserves your attention. Be intentional about who you allow to speak into your life. Are they speaking life, or are they sowing doubt?  3. Take Action in Faith – Faith without works is dead (James 2:26). If God has called you to something, move forward in confidence, knowing that He equips those He calls.  4. Let Your Fruit Speak for You – You don’t have to defend yourself against every accusation. When you are walking in purpose, your fruit will speak louder than any lie (Matthew 7:16).  Step Into Your Purpose Without Fear  At the end of the day, the voices of men will come and go, but God’s word remains forever (Isaiah 40:8). The enemy will use people to discourage you, to spread lies, and to try to limit you, but when you walk in purpose, favor will follow. So, I ask you the same question that changed my life: God has also spoken—do you believe what He has said about you?  It’s time to rise, move boldly, and silence the noise. His word is final.  Akeelia Thompson Contributor Akeelia Thompson, affectionately known as “Your Favourite Creativepreneur,” is a writer for noblemedianetwork.com .  She is a visionary leader, faith-driven strategist and passionate storyteller committed to helping individuals unlock their God-ordained purpose. As the Founder and Creative Director of Souled Into Purpose International (SIP), she guides listeners and community members on the transformative journey of discovering, embracing and living out their unique calling.

I used to sit in the corner of the classroom, shrinking myself to stay invisible. I didn’t want to be called on, didn’t want to speak, didn’t want anyone to notice me. I was afraid of stumbling over my words, of saying something wrong, of being laughed at. And yes, I did speak, and mispronounced words and they did laugh.  So, I stayed quiet. But at home? I was a different person. I talked nonstop. My parents told me that sometimes I asked so many questions that I didn’t allow them to sleep.  It took me years to realize that the voice I hid out of fear was actually a gift. It wasn’t loud or distinguished, but it was powerful. When I began teaching Sunday school, leading Bible studies, and sharing encouragement with others, something clicked. People listened. They connected. I saw myself the way God had all along: gifted. I was a communicator, whether speech or written,  and this was a talent I was born with.   But for so long, I didn’t believe I had anything to offer. Maybe that’s where you are right now, looking at everyone else, watching them shine and wondering: What about me? Did I  miss the day God handed out talents? Some people seem to know what they're good at from the moment they can walk. They’re drawing masterpieces with crayons, singing their ABCs in beautiful falsetto, or leading their team to victory on the field. And then there are “the rest of us.” The ones who wonder if maybe we were overlooked or forgotten and are wondering, “Do I even have a talent?”  Let me stop you right there. You are not talentless. You are not forgotten. You are not too late. But you may be hiding. Hiding behind fear, shame or lies.  Let’s debunk these lies:   1. I Don't Have Talent You do. But maybe it doesn’t look like what you expected. You may not be a singer or dancer. Maybe you’re the one who sees solutions when everyone else sees problems. That’s not “just” a skill, it’s God-given. 2. My Talent Is Too Small To Matter The enemy loves this one. The parable of the talents in Matthew 25 tells of a man who buried his talent (even though the scripture referred to money, this is still relevant here) because it felt too small. He thought, "Why bother?" But your "small" could be someone else's breakthrough.  You don’t need an audience, you need obedience.  3. Their Talent Is Better Than Mine Comparison is a thief, robbing you of confidence, joy, and purpose. There is no competition in God’s calling. Your gift and talents matter—not because they look like someone else's, but because they’re yours. How many times do you see someone in church afraid to pray because their voice is not as powerful as another's or because they don’t have all the fancy words. Do you want to know a secret? Most times when I looked back at my answered prayers, they were not loud or had many words, but they were sincere.  Now that we have kicked out those lies, what’s next?  1. Get Quiet Before God Ask Him. Let Him show you what He placed inside of you. Reflect on Proverbs 3:5–6. You  might be surprised by what’s already there, waiting for your yes.  2. Use What’s in Your Hands.  During a practice session in my Life Coaching Certification, I told my partner I wasn’t sure I could do it. She looked at me and asked, “What do you have in your hands?” Reminding me of Exodus 4:2, when God asked Moses the same question. Moses saw a stick, but God saw a tool for miracles. So, I ask you, what do you have in your hand?  3. Surround Yourself with People Who See Your Purpose.  Not everyone will understand your calling. But there are purpose-minded people who will fan  your flame. “Iron sharpens iron.” — Proverbs 27:17  4. Chase Purpose, Not Perfection. Waiting to be perfect will leave you paralyzed. You don’t have to have it all together. Just start. if you love hospitality, don’t wait until you get the degree. Serve where you are. The more you use your talent, the more it will grow.  5. Be Bold—Even If You’re Afraid.  It’s okay to be nervous but make the step anyway. The same God who gave you this talent has equipped you. Just ask Moses.  Stagnation happens when we stop using what we’ve been given, but breakthrough happens the moment we start. So, I ask you again: What have you been hiding? What would happen if you stopped letting fear lead and started walking in faith? Use what’s in your hands and watch God use it for His glory. Kay-Dian Edwards is a writer for noblemedianetwork.com . She is an author, speaker, Certified Christian Life Coach, and Bible study leader with a deep passion for empowering women through the Word of God. She specializes in encouraging healing and uplifting women who have been wounded by relationships, guiding them to rediscover their true worth. With a background in human resource management, customer care, and organizing women’s workshops and conferences, Kay-Dian is committed to helping women step confidently into their God-given identity. She also serves as a Justice of the Peace and is engaged in volunteerism and community service.

Have you ever felt a stirring in your heart, a desire to do more than just go through the motions of life? The feeling of wanting to live with deeper purpose and intention is a sign that you're being called to align your goals with your spiritual calling. When we begin to live with purpose, everything—from our work to our relationships—takes on new meaning. But how do we set intentional goals that reflect our spiritual path? In this blog, we’ll explore how to set goals that are not only practical but also deeply connected to your spiritual calling. 1. Understand Your Spiritual Calling Before setting goals, it’s important to understand your spiritual calling. What is God asking you to do in this season of your life? This can sometimes be difficult to pinpoint, but it’s a journey worth taking. Spend time in prayer and meditation, seeking clarity from God. Listen for His voice and look for the subtle ways He might be guiding you. Jeremiah 29:11 offers comfort here: "For I know the plans I have for you," declares the Lord, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you a hope and a future."   2. Align Your Goals with God's Word Once you have a clearer sense of your calling, it's time to set goals that align with God's Word. Scripture is a powerful tool that gives us guidance on how to live with purpose. In all things, your goals should reflect God’s values, like kindness, integrity, and service to others. Philippians 3:14 encourages us: "I press on toward the goal to win the prize for which God has called me heavenward in Christ Jesus."   This scripture reminds us to stay focused on the higher calling, knowing that the goals we set should lead us toward fulfilling that greater purpose. 3. Set SMART Goals with a Spiritual Focus When setting goals, it's important to be specific, measurable, attainable, relevant, and time-bound—this is known as the SMART goal method. But when you’re living with purpose, your goals should also have a spiritual focus. Ask yourself: How does this goal bring me closer to fulfilling my calling? How does it honor God and bless others? 4. Include Prayer Prayer should be a central part of your goal-setting process. As you create your goals, ask God for His guidance. Pray for wisdom, direction, and clarity on which goals align with His plan for your life. Invite Him into the process, and trust that He will lead you to the right path. James 1:5 tells us, "If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach, and it will be given to him."   5. Remain Flexible and Trust the Process Life doesn’t always unfold according to our timeline, and sometimes we may need to adjust our goals. Trusting God’s timing is essential. While it’s important to set intentional goals, it’s equally important to remain open to His plan and be flexible when things don’t go as expected. Proverbs 16:9 says, "In their hearts, humans plan their course, but the Lord establishes their steps."   Trust that God will guide you, even when the path seems unclear. Stay faithful, remain adaptable, and keep your eyes on the bigger picture He’s creating for you. As you move forward in your journey, always remember that God is with you, guiding each goal, each decision, and each action. His plans are for your good, and with Him, you can accomplish everything you were created to do.

The Crisis That Came Without Warning On May 25th, 2022, in the wee hours of the morning, riddled in pain, I reckoned it was another crisis. The weather didn’t have to change, or a cold front didn’t have to pass through, for my bones and ankle to stiffen. I was born with Sickle Cell Anemia, and it has proven to be a hard battle. So there I was — tears flowing like a broken faucet, clenching my arms to my chest and gritting my teeth as I tried not to scream out in pain. My mind was bombarded with questions and uncertainty... But just then, I heard the Holy Spirit whisper gently, “There is freedom in your pain.” It was clear and distinctive. My spirit soaked up this truth like a sponge, but my mind, soul, and body were in World War 3. My thoughts started shouting questions: How can I find freedom in pain that is constant? Will I ever be free to live, not only exist? Will I ever receive my miracle? My heart sank, because I knew those questions were marinated in doubt and fear... Broken Prayers but God! Be that as it may, the Holy Spirit is very strategic, and moments like these were nothing new to Him. He had listened to me cry myself to sleep. He heard me wrestle with my reasoning. And though my results were limited, I serve a limitless and infinite God who sees beyond everything... The Battlefield of the Mind! I still face physical challenges and pain every second, every hour. I’m still figuring out how to not only believe this truth but live in the reality of it. The Holy Spirit keeps reminding me: the real battle is in my mind… Whenever I’m about to dress my ankle, the feeling is daunting. A lump forms in my throat. Sweat pours. Tears fall. I play music to distract me, but nothing helps. There was a war unknowingly taking place in my subconscious and it began manifesting in the natural… My mind had been conditioned to respond to pain with fear, not faith. This dwindled my faith over and over again. Pain is real. But what I’m unlearning and re-learning — even while writing this — is that this violent, nerve-racking battle is in our minds… Renewing My Mind, Reclaiming My Power Romans 12:2 says, “Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.” We are stronger than we give ourselves credit for. And we serve a powerful King who amplifies that strength within us. If I can keep on praying for healing—even when it gets hard and uncomfortable, I believe that thread of hope can become a rope of faith and courage. Turning Pain Into Purpose! This revelation teaches us that pain doesn’t control us; we control our response to pain. That freedom is found in the daily choice to renew our minds, tap into God’s power, and do it all over again tomorrow. No pain is alike, but it is powerful when sight has been restored. Even while pain persists, we are free in knowing it’s connected to something far greater than ourselves. We are Surrounded by a Great Cloud of Witnesses! We must turn pain into a weapon of purpose that God can use. Just like Corrie Ten Boom, one of my heroes, who changed the world with her faith despite the horrors she faced. It won’t be easy — trust me, I know. But we can always find peace in God. One of Corrie’s poems that stays with me goes like this: “If you look at the world, you'll be distressed. If you look within, you'll be depressed. If you look at God, you'll be at rest.” Kiesha Pitter Contributor Kiesha Pitter is a writer for noblemedianetwork.com . She is a chronic illness advocate, author, speaker, and certified Christian life and faith coach, on a mission to empower warriors battling chronic illnesses. As a Sickle Cell Warrior, she is deeply rooted in her faith in God. Drawing from her personal experiences and expertise, she offers practical strategies to help others regain control of their healing journey and embrace a life of fulfillment, even in the face of limitations.

For we are God’s masterpiece. He has created us anew in Christ Jesus, so we can do the good things he planned for us long ago."  —Ephesians 2:10 You are not here by accident. God crafted you with intention, placing within you unique gifts and a purpose designed to impact the world. It’s easy to get distracted by comparison or doubt, but when you align with God’s plan for your life, you’ll find a sense of fulfillment and direction that nothing else can give. Each day is an opportunity to walk in purpose—embrace it with confidence and joy. No one can be you the way you can! Prayer: Lord, thank You for creating me with purpose. Help me to see myself through Your eyes and to embrace the good works You’ve prepared for me. Teach me to live each day with intention, trusting Your guidance for my life. In Jesus' name, Amen. Reflection: What is one step you can take this week to align more closely with your purpose? Write it down and pray for God’s direction as you move forward.

"Do you see a man skilled in his work? He will stand before kings; he will not stand before obscure men." — Proverbs 22:29 I remember sharing two personal development books with my mentee, only to be met with a look that said, "Are you serious?" Maybe he thought I was nuts. But here’s the truth—I had to do the work. Developing my speech, improving my writing, and elevating myself holistically were all necessary steps in unlocking favour over my life. My personal stance on life is holistic development in balanced proportions—mind, spirit, and strategy. It’s about intentionally placing yourself in rooms that feel bigger than you, reading books that stretch your mind, subscribing to content and podcasts that fuel your growth, and studying the journeys of those ahead of you. Let’s not forget the work behind the scenes: updating online profiles, seeking mentorship, engaging in study sessions, and refining skills. Without these intentional steps, I would not have been able to launch my platform, Souled Into Purpose International. When the Lord first gave me the vision to launch as a podcast, I remember asking, "Lord, who would listen to me?" The truth is, nothing changes until we do. Unlocking Favour: The Path to Purpose Many of us are waiting for purpose to happen to us, but purpose is unlocked through alignment, diligence and intentionality. As Apostle Joshua Selman recently shared, both God and Satan agree on one thing: laziness cannot work in their kingdom. Favour follows faithfulness, and opportunities arise when we are prepared to step into them. Doors did not open for me until I put in the work. People did not recommend me until they saw my consistency. The divine plan of God over our lives is real, but God will not bless what we refuse to steward. Steps to Position Yourself for Purpose 1. Commit to Personal Development The Bible says in 2 Timothy 2:15, "Study to show yourself approved unto God, a workman that needeth not to be ashamed." Invest in books, courses, and resources that refine your knowledge and skills. Growth isn’t automatic, it is intentional. 2. Be in the Right Environments Stop waiting for comfort. Purpose often pushes us into uncomfortable spaces. Be in rooms that stretch your thinking. Network with people who challenge and inspire you. Proverbs 27:17 reminds us, "Iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another." 3. Master Your Craft & Build a Digital Presence Excellence attracts opportunity. Whether in business, ministry, or personal branding, your digital footprint matters. People are searching for solutions—position yourself as a vessel that provides value. Consistently update your LinkedIn, social media, or website to reflect your growth. 4. Embrace Mentorship & Community You can’t grow in isolation. Seek out mentors who have walked the path you desire to take. Learn from their mistakes and apply their wisdom. Ecclesiastes 4:9 states, "Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labour." 5. Develop a Strong Work Ethic Favor comes to those who work with diligence. Jesus Himself said in John 5:17, "My Father is always at His work to this very day, and I too am working." Nothing great happens without labor. Your effort in the unseen will produce results in due time. 6. Stay Consistent & Faithful Favor isn’t about occasional effort; it follows consistent faithfulness. Many people start strong but give up too soon. Stay the course. "Do not grow weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up." — Galatians 6:9 The Journey to Purpose Starts Now Too often, we sit on the edge of destiny, waiting for a perfect moment to step out. Purpose is not just about waiting on God; it’s also about preparation. God has already placed something in you that the world needs. The question is, are you willing to develop it? Are you willing to show up, refine your gifts and be positioned for the favour you’re praying for? Akeelia Thompson Contributor Akeelia Thompson, affectionately known as “Your Favourite Creativepreneur,” is a writer for noblemedianetwork.com .  She is a visionary leader, faith-driven strategist and passionate storyteller committed to helping individuals unlock their God-ordained purpose. As the Founder and Creative Director of Souled Into Purpose International (SIP), she guides listeners and community members on the transformative journey of discovering, embracing and living out their unique calling.

They say the church is a hospital for the broken, a refuge for the weary, and a place of unconditional love. But what happens when the very place that’s meant to heal you becomes the source of your deepest wounds? What do you do when the hands that should be lifting you in prayer are the same ones stabbing you in the back?  I, too, have experienced church hurt. I know what it feels like to be overlooked, to be the topic of whispered conversations, to have my trust shattered by those I thought were spiritual mentors. But here’s what I’ve learned: Just because they weren’t good to you doesn’t mean that wasn’t your birthing place. Sometimes, we must grow through the storm to truly understand God’s calling on our lives.  The Reality of Church Hurt  Church hurt is real, and for many, it cuts deeper than any other wound. Why? Because the church is supposed to be a sacred place, a family of believers united in Christ’s love. But the hard truth is that not everyone inside the church is truly transformed. Many are saved but not surrendered. They know the Word, but they don’t live it.  Some churches function more like mean girls’ clubs than places of worship. They suppress your gifts, gossip about you, and measure you against an unrealistic standard. If you don’t fit their mold, they label you as “not anointed enough” or “not qualified.” But let’s be real—Jesus didn’t call the qualified; He qualifies the called.  When “Prayer” Becomes Gossip  I once sought prayer, believing I was confiding in spiritual warriors who would stand in the gap for me. Instead, my struggles became community gossip. Chile, that was just the tip of the iceberg! I was devastated. But the Holy Spirit reminded me: He is my true intercessor. People may fail you, but God never will.  Let’s get one thing straight—church hurt does not equal God hurt. God is not the author of confusion (1 Corinthians 14:33). He does not condone spiritual abuse, manipulation, or toxic leadership. If you’ve been wounded, know this: God sees, God knows, and God will heal.  Should You Stay or Leave?  One of the biggest questions after experiencing church hurt is, Should I stay or should I leave? Some argue that when you get offended at work, you don’t just quit, so why leave a church over hurt feelings? On the flip side, a toxic church environment can be detrimental to your spiritual growth. This is where a relationship with the Holy Spirit is crucial. Only He can reveal how to handle the season or if it’s time to find a new spiritual home. Remember, running isn’t always the answer, however, staying isn’t always wise. Seek God’s direction. Of course, as it pertains to situations of abuse, leaving an unsafe environment is always the right thing to do. Healing from Church Hurt  Healing is a process, but here are a few things to consider:  1. Acknowledge the Hurt – Pretending it didn’t happen won’t heal you. It’s okay to grieve the betrayal, disappointment, and pain.  Psalm 34:18 – “The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.”  2. Separate God from People – People may fail you, but God never will. Your faith should be rooted in God, not the institution.  1 Corinthians 2:5 – “ So that your faith might not rest on the wisdom of men but on the power of God. ”  3. Guard Your Heart – Don’t allow bitterness to take root. Forgiveness is for your freedom, not theirs.  Proverbs 4:23 – “Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.”  4. Find a Safe Space – If your church environment is toxic, seek a community that truly embodies Christ’s love.  Hebrews 10:25 – “Not giving up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but encouraging one another…”  5. Pray for Discernment – Not every “church” is truly of God. Some are built on pride, not purpose.  Matthew 7:15 – “Beware of false prophets, who come to you in sheep’s clothing but inwardly are ravenous wolves.”  God is Still Good  Despite the wounds, God is still good. The enemy will use church hurt to separate you from Christ, but don’t let him win. If you’ve been hurt by the church, I encourage you to lean into God, not away from Him. He sees your pain, and He is faithful to restore you.  You are still chosen. You are still called. And you still have purpose.  So, to anyone who has been wounded by the church, I see you. I hear you. But more importantly, God sees and hears you. Don’t give up on Him because of them.  Let’s heal. Let’s grow. And let’s continue to build God’s kingdom together. Because while church hurt is real, so is God’s love, grace, and redemption.  What has your experience been with church hurt? Let’s talk about it. Akeelia Thompson Contributor Akeelia Thompson, affectionately known as “Your Favourite Creativepreneur,” is a writer for noblemedianetwork.com .  She is a visionary leader, faith-driven strategist and passionate storyteller committed to helping individuals unlock their God-ordained purpose. As the Founder and Creative Director of Souled Into Purpose International (SIP), she guides listeners and community members on the transformative journey of discovering, embracing and living out their unique calling.

“And they lived happily ever after” – the classic ending to so many fairytales. But what happens after the wedding? As little girls, we soaked up these stories, believing that marriage was the key to happiness. We believed that if we were pretty enough, our Prince Charming would come,  sweep us off our feet, and we'd ride off into an enchanted world where birds sang in harmony.   We were taught that all our dreams would come true – just by believing in them.  We spent more time imagining the perfect wedding dress and planning the big day than asking  the real questions: “Am I ready for this?” “Is this the person I want to spend my life with?”  From a young age, we were out of sync with reality. While as little girls we dressed up like princesses, little boys played with action figures and raced toy cars. Little girls grew up believing in fairytales, but real life doesn’t play out like a Hallmark movie. It’s messy,  unpredictable, and doesn’t always resolve in 90 mins.  Many of us entered relationships thinking we had found “the one,” only to discover that the script changed unexpectedly. What seemed like an adorable Hallmark film quickly turned into a thriller tale from Lifetime. And you are left wondering, “Where’s my happily ever after?”  Growing up in church, I often heard, “God hates divorce.” While it’s true, this statement became a source of fear for me. I was terrified of entering a relationship. I didn’t want to end up on God’s “most hated” list. The idea of failing and disappointing God weighed heavily on me.  Then, one day, my worst fear became a reality. Divorce, a word I had always feared, became a part of my own story. Self-doubt and shame consumed me. I asked myself, “Does God still  love me?”   In my brokenness, I turned to scripture. Malachi 2:16 says, “For I hate divorce, says the Lord…” I had read this verse countless times before, but this time, it hit differently. I asked God to show me how this applied to my situation, and He revealed something profound: God hates divorce, but He does not hate me. Divorce was something I had to walk through, but it was not my identity. God’s love for me hadn’t changed. That realization sparked the beginning of my healing journey.  Healing is found in God’s Word. As I immersed myself in the Bible, I began to discover just how deeply God loves me, despite my circumstances. Hebrews 4:12 describes God’s Word as  “alive and active, sharper than any double-edged sword.” I began to understand that His Word wasn’t just for comfort, but for transformation. It’s through the Word of God that I found healing and peace.  Scriptures like Genesis 29:31, where God remembered Leah and saw her pain, helped me realize that God notices our struggles, even when others don’t. Isaiah 54 became a source of comfort, where God promises restoration to those who feel abandoned. God isn’t distant or indifferent to our brokenness—He is deeply compassionate and willing to heal the wounds we carry. Psalm 107:20 says, “He sent out His word and healed them; He rescued them from the grave.”  As I meditated on these verses, I felt the healing power of God’s Word begin to fill my heart.   Healing didn’t come overnight, but I kept seeking God. Psalm 119:10 says, “With my whole  heart, I seek you; let me not wander from your commandments.” I allowed God’s words to minister to me. In the quiet moments, I felt His peace settle over me, replacing my fear with hope.  Maybe you’re reading this and finding yourself in a similar place. Perhaps you’ve experienced heartbreak, disappointment, or a sense of failure in your relationships. Maybe you’ve wondered if God still has a plan for your life after your dreams have been shattered.  There is healing beyond the fairytale. Life might not always go according to plan, and things don’t always turn out how we imagined, but God’s love for you is unchanging. His Word is alive, and it has the power to restore even the most broken parts of your heart.  You are not defined by your past mistakes or your circumstances. God is in the business of restoration. When we turn to Him, He meets us in our pain, offering healing, comfort, and a new beginning. Your story is not over.  Philippians 4:6 reminds us, “Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer  and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God." I implore you to trust in the Lord, seek His healing, and let Him lead you to a new chapter—one filled with  His peace, love, and restoration.

"...Forgive as the Lord forgave you" (Colossians 3:13 NIV) It is quite possible that my dear reader has been seriously hurt by someone; someone who never apologized or did anything sufficient to make it right. It could have been a co-worker, a friend, or a family member. Growing up, I longed for love… I loved my father dearly, and he could do no wrong in my eyes but he was not always present. I can still remember that Thursday afternoon when I was graduating from prep school. At that time common entrance was the exam taken to matriculate into high school. Daddy promised me faithfully that he would be at my graduation. Excitedly, I got ready for the big day and it seemed like forever before the program would start. We marched into the church to the song, A Rose in Spanish Harlem by Ben E King. We sang our hearts out as we signaled to our family and friends that we were ready for the next leg of life. Every opportunity I got, I would look to see if my dad was in the audience. Sadly, the graduation came to an end and daddy was not there. It broke my heart to the point that I did not go to the after party at one of my friends' houses. There would be other occasions where I felt disappointed and unloved and I wondered, do I possess qualities that are lovable,? When I started high school I got the attention of the males in class but as a shy and reserved individual, I kept to myself. But someone caught my attention. He was a cousin of a friend in my youth group at church. He was handsome and ‘fed’ me all the right words that I so longed to hear from my dad. For my friend’s 16th birthday, her mother had a big party, and of course, I was invited and you can guess who was also invited. He offered me an alcoholic beverage, which I refused, and then he said, "Let’s get away from the noise." I went, and as he was older than I, it was the mercy of God that gave me the strength to push him away when he desired to do things I was not willing to do.  I felt so unclean and ashamed. No amount of baths helped how I felt. I felt more unloved than before that evening. After someone has demeaned you, betrayed you, or abused you, it is pretty natural to want to get back at that person. But forgiveness is a better option, though it may be the furthest thing from your mind. I wanted so much for something bad to happen to my friend’s cousin. In all four Gospels, Jesus notes the importance of forgiving others to ensure God's forgiveness. He said, "But if you do not forgive men their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins" (Matthew 6:15 NIV). So, if forgiveness is such a good thing, why do we continue to punish ourselves with the pains of a past long gone?  The short answer is that forgiveness is hard to achieve. I struggled with it for years because while I may have desired to forgive, it was hard to forget all the pain I experienced. However, I have learned that real healing starts with forgiveness, though it often takes place late in the healing process. When we forgive, we come to realize that this person who hurt us is a very flawed human being. Forgiveness helps us to feel better, to begin to rid ourselves of the anger, bitterness, or resentment we may carry inside. It may help to know that forgiveness is independent from reconciliation. Forgiveness does not guarantee a reunion, nor does it diminish the wrongness of what the person did to you. Forgiveness does mean that you will not allow the one who hurt you to be the same person who decides whether or when you heal from the pain. Just as importantly, the decision to forgive someone opens the pathway for God to transform your pain into something good. Dear sister, I pray that, although forgiveness is a tall order, our Heavenly Father will give you the strength to release the individual(s) who wronged you so that you can claim your healing in Jesus’ name and live the life God has ordained for you.  La-Toya Cameron Hill is a writer for noblemedianetwork.com , where she pens articles for Healing Today , our column dedicated to emotional healing personal transformation and overall wellness, led by trusted professionals in their field. A trauma survivor herself, she knows firsthand the struggle of feeling lost, disconnected, and burdened by the past. Now, a Certified Life and Trauma Coach, La-Toya is dedicated to guiding others toward wholeness. She is the founder of Blooming in Freedom , a safe space designed to empower those held captive by their past. With a BA in Social Work, an MA in Counseling Psychology, and certifications in Personality Psychology, Human Behavior, and Trauma Coaching, she equips individuals to reclaim their purpose and embrace healing.

“She all ah tell mi about the one Deacon. Who ah drive the big Benz ah where him get money from. That's why nobody nah want give no collection.” — Shaggy, "Church Heathen"  Sound familiar? From my eyes were at my knees until now, the church community has grappled with many issues, one being that of tithes and offerings. But what exactly are these?  Understanding Tithes and Offerings  Tithes and offerings are financial contributions made by believers to support their local church and its ministries. The term "tithe" originates from the Old English word "teogotha," meaning "tenth," reflecting the practice of giving 10% of one's income. Offerings, on the other hand, are additional gifts given beyond the tithe, often designated for specific purposes or needs within the church community. The Biblical Origins of Tithing  The concept of tithing predates Mosaic Law, with its earliest mention in the Bible found in Genesis 14:18-20. Here, Abram (later Abraham) encounters Melchizedek, the king of Salem and priest of God Most High. In gratitude for a blessing, Abram gives Melchizedek a tenth of all his possessions. This act signifies recognition of God's provision and sovereignty.  Later, in Leviticus 27:30, the Israelites are instructed: "A tithe of everything from the land, whether grain from the soil or fruit from the trees, belongs to the Lord; it is holy to the Lord." This establishes tithing as a divine ordinance, reinforcing the principle of dedicating a portion of one's earnings to God.  Contemporary Challenges and Misuses  Recently, tithing has come under scrutiny due to instances where church leaders have exploited it for personal gain. The rise of "prosperity gospel" preachers, who promise divine blessings in exchange for financial contributions, has led many to question the true purpose of tithing.  For example, some self-proclaimed prophets have been known to request monetary "seeds" in exchange for prophetic words or miracles. This practice has been criticized for preying on vulnerable individuals seeking spiritual guidance. As highlighted in discussions about false prophets, such actions are seen as manipulative and contrary to genuine biblical teaching.  Additionally, certain church leaders have discouraged giving to the poor, emphasizing tithing to the church as the primary avenue for receiving God's blessings. Pastor Keion Henderson, founder of The Lighthouse Church & Ministries in Houston, Texas, faced backlash after a sermon where he suggested that blessings come from tithing to the church rather than giving to the needy. Critics argued that this perspective contradicts biblical teachings on charity and compassion.  The Impact on Congregations  Such controversies have led to a growing skepticism among believers regarding the allocation and use of church funds. Stories of leaders living lavish lifestyles—driving luxury cars and residing in opulent homes—while congregants struggle financially have fueled distrust. This disparity often discourages members from contributing, fearing their hard-earned money is funding extravagance rather than ministry work.  Moreover, some congregants feel pressured to give beyond their means, with leaders emphasizing sacrificial giving as a demonstration of faith. This can lead to financial strain and resentment, especially when transparency about fund usage is lacking.  The Essence of Tithing Despite these challenges, the fundamental question remains: Should believers continue to tithe? If one holds the belief that "the earth is the Lord's, and everything in it" (Psalm 24:1), then tithing becomes an act of acknowledging God's sovereignty over all possessions. Jesus also taught, "Give back to Caesar what is Caesar's, and to God what is God's" (Matthew 22:21), highlighting the importance of fulfilling both civic and divine obligations.  Furthermore, the principle of generosity is echoed in Luke 6:38: "Give, and it will be given to you. A good measure, pressed down, shaken together and running over, will be poured into your lap." This underscores the blessings associated with a giving heart.  Balancing Accountability and Faith  Churches need to maintain transparency and accountability in financial matters. Congregants have a right to know how their contributions are utilized, ensuring funds support genuine ministry efforts and community needs. This sentiment was echoed recently when a video resurfaced of renowned gospel singer Marvin Sapp ordering ushers, rather sternly, to “close the doors,” as he proceeded to tell congregants, in the sanctuary and watching online, to give $20 each in an effort to raise USD40,000. However, it's equally important for believers to examine their own hearts and motivations. Are we withholding tithes due to distrust, or are we seeking excuses to avoid giving? While there have been instances of misuse, many ministries operate with integrity, using funds to further the Gospel and serve communities.  A Call to Discernment and Generosity  Tithing, at its core, is a personal covenant between the believer and God. It reflects trust, obedience, and recognition of God's provision. While it's crucial to be vigilant against exploitation and to demand accountability from church leaders, we must also guard against allowing cynicism to hinder our generosity. As believers, we're called to support the work of the ministry, assist those in need and steward our resources wisely. By doing so, we honour God and ensure that our contributions have a meaningful impact.  In the end, the act of giving isn't just about the transaction; it's about the transformation it brings—both in the lives of others and within our own hearts. Akeelia Thompson Contributor Akeelia Thompson, affectionately known as “Your Favourite Creativepreneur,” is a writer for noblemedianetwork.com .  She is a visionary leader, faith-driven strategist and passionat e storyteller committed to helping individuals unlock their God-ordained purpose. As the Founder and Creative Director of Souled Into Purpose International (SIP), she guides listeners and community members on the transformative journey of discovering, embracing and living out their unique calling.